e[lust] #26

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Bikery - The mental image of Suzy mounting this thing and pedaling herself towards a quaking orgasm flashed across my mind’s eye and I grinned into her face.

If you are monogamous can you learn to be polyamorous? - Do you think that someone who is monogamous can learn to be polyamorous for a partner, or do you think they are courting disaster?

Hot Wax - I detached myself from what she was doing to me. *breathe* She pulled again. I came from the pain, motionless, silent, and helpless to stop it. She continued.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Spring - My eyes wide, there was no time for reaction as another crowd was wandering down the path. Our eyes locked and Daniel smirked, attempting to find something innocuous to say.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

What is Sex Positive? - Just because I create & run something, doesn’t mean I’m a dictator. e[lust] is as much yours as it is mine, and I value the opinions of everyone.

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Erotic Writing

6. Gluttony

Erotica: Suit & Tie Guy VS The Construction Worker pt II

Gang·bang­»ed

hot and bothered...

In the Morning

My First Blowjob

Oh, What a Sight!

Skate / For Wank Wednesday

Soak(ed)

The tables have turned

Wanting it Bad. Wanting it Hard

What I will do with a dildo: Sing, do with a dildo

Kink & Fetish

As much sex as he can fuck into me

Afternoon Sex x 4

Fetish/Fashion

I used to be a Masochist

Now Lick My Boots Clean, Submissive

Open

Plug Me

Rope play

Staked Out

spank, fisted and strung up

The Room

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A sex-positive female in a sex-negative society

A Period Drama

On Safer Sex and STIs; Musings on The Swingset

Question Month #4

Sense of Responsibility

Simple?

Touch My Cock

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Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Hello, My Name is Danny Wylde

In Praise of SlutWalks

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Pleasurists #129

In Suspence by Rozyland

Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.

Did you miss Pleasurists #128? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #130? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form to submit before Sunday May 15th @ 11:59pm Pacific.

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• EdenFantasys $30 GiftCard Giveaway! Deadline: May 10th @ 11pm Pacific.
• Pub Crawl Passport Deadline: May 10th.
• Win a Couture Collection vibe (part 2) Deadline: May 12th @ Midnight Eastern.
• Welcoming The Warm Weather – It’s Giveaway Time! Deadline: May 18th.
• $30 to Fascinations Giveaway Deadline: May 21st.
• Somewhere Over the Rainbow is a LGBTQI Pride-Inspired Dildo Just for You! Deadline: May 25th @ 11am Central.
• Fun Factory Giveaway Deadline: May 25th.
• Sqweel Giveaway Deadline: May 25th.
• It’s a Month of FUN at Babeland! Deadline: May 28th.
• May Contest Giveaway – The Double Diver Deadline: May 31st @ 10pm Eastern.
• Coochy Shave Gift Pack Giveaway Deadline: May 31st.
• Win Blossom Organics Arousal Gel from Babeland.com! Deadline: May 31st @ 11:59pm.
• Giveaway: Nosy Toyfriend Deadline: June 1st.
• Twilite Massager Giveaway Deadline: June 3rd.
• Delicate Illusions Plus Sized Swimsuit Giveaway Deadline: June 4th.
• $30 ToysForSex.co Giveaway Deadline: June 4th.
• Crystal Causes $12,000 sex toy giveaway & community fundraiser Deadline: July 31st.

Editor

Scarlet Lotus

On to the reviews…

Vibrators

• Tantus Little Secret Touch by the bedroom blogger
• Jopen Vanity Vr6 by buzzvibe
• Evolved Fleur de Lis by padme amidala
• Touch Shaft by Joanna Cake
• i-Vibe Rabbit by Joan Price
• Better Than Chocolate by Venus
• LELO Gigi by Nicky
• Nosy Toyfriend by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
• JeJoue G-Ki by DIY Orgasms
• Bzzz Buddies Shivers by Naughty Snow White
• Berman Venus G by Naughty Snow White
• Jopen Vanity Vr3 by Lucid Obsession
• Matryoshka by LucyLemonade
• Dream G by Red Vinyl Kitty

Dildos

• Don Wands Cobalt Glass Pleasure Wand by Kit O’Connell
• Phallix Hearts by Mistress Kay
• Candy-Colored Glass Dildo by Epiphora
• Erotic Glass Art Mr. Magic Wand by Toys in Love
• Icicles No. 5 by Ashley
• Fun Factory Amor by Naughty Snow White
• Tantus Goddess by Epiphora

Anal Toys

• Happy Valley Pleasure #1 by Dusk
• Deluxe Wonder Plug by Mistress Kay
• Icicles Glass Plug by Red Vinyl Kitty
• Vibratex Pandora by daniel and frances
• Uni-Sex Anal Douche by DIY Orgasms
• Pop Plugs by Naughty Snow White

Toys for Cocks

• Crystal Hand Job Stroker by Mia Martina
• Tenga Flip-Hole by DIY Orgasms

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

• SystemJO H2O Flavored by Mistress Kay
• Aloe Cadabra by True Pleasures
• French Lavender Aloe Cadabra by True Pleasures

BDSM/Fetish

• Lavish Nipple Clamps by the bedroom blogger
• Doc Johnson Bondage Rope by Kit O’Connell
• Love Knot Flogger by Lucid Obsession
• Sportsheets Soft Blindfold by CLP
• Bondage Boutique Heart Riding Crop Whip by silverdrop

Adult DVDs & Porn

• How to be a Sex Goddess in 101 Easy Steps by Lucid Obsession
• Tristan Taormino’s Rough Sex by the bedroom blogger
• Passion by Chops McGruff
• In Hot Pursuit by The Porn Librarian
• Tristan Taormino’s Rough Sex 3: Adrianna’s Dangerous Mind – Scene 3 by J.D. Bauchery
• Scrubs – A XXX Parody by Ginger Leigh
• Official The Silence Of The Lambs Parody by The Porn Librarian
• Boundaries 7 by J.D. Bauchery

Sex Furniture

• Liberator BonBon by Scarlet Lotus
• 5-Piece Vibrating Position Pillowcase with Dildo Set by Mistress Kay
• Liberator Heart Wedge by Nicky
• Liberator Heart Wedge by Screaming Violet
• Cupids Couch by DIY Orgasms

Miscellaneous

• Tantus Suction Cup by Mistress Kay
• Spareparts Joque Harness by Toys in Love
• Bijoux Collection Deluxe: Striptease by Mistress Kay
• Try Me Gift Set by Lucid Obsession
• Simply Sexy by Lucid Obsession

An Open Mushy Letter to my Frances

I can never quite decide whether talking about it makes today better or worse. So please forgive me if this was the wrong thing to do...

Please know my thoughts today are all of you. I'm missing you terribly and missing our little somebody even more, and dreaming of flowers and sticky little hands bringing you french toast in bed, and giving you the day you deserve. And i'm quietly celebrating the mother figure you already are to all the little people in your world; the mommy you've been in your heart for so long already; the most wonderful mommy imaginable that I know you'll be for our lucky little people.

I love you, baby.

-d.

Review 3: Pandora Prostate Massager by Vibratex

Graciously provided by EdenFantasys

*Please review our guidelines for our reviews of sex toys here*

------Quick overview-----

Who will like this product? Those who enjoy...

• Prostate (and/or G-spot) stimulation with gentle vibration
• Slim toys for anal play
• Varied vibration settings

Pros:

• Safe, easily washable silicone material
• 7 vibration programs
• Shape allows for easy use

Cons:

• May be too small for 'advanced' users
• Motor could be stronger
• No-frills control options

Now let's get into the nitty gritty...

Materials & Workmanship (5 pearls): Silicone, which is always great to see.  Top of the line for safety, non-porous, which makes it great for cleanup.  The material is very silky and smooth, which feels nice, and came in handy as we'll talk more about later...

Aesthetic Appeal (4 pearls):  It's sleek and slim, a nice deep blue color, and fairly elegant looking for what it is.  There's no mistaking it for a toy, but it's on the abstract side.  Packaging is simple and no frills, just a plastic shell with a card insert.

Features (3 pearls):  The vibe portion has 7 settings - low, medium, high, and then a variety of pulsing / variation settings.  This seems like a pretty fair number.  Unfortunately, the only way to cycle through them is one at a time, so if you wanted to go, say, from high to medium, you'd have to go all the way around.  Also unfortunately, the motor's not terribly powerful.  Obviously,people's mileage will vary a bit, but I found the highest settings just barely high enough for my liking, and the lower ones...  pleasant enough, but not exactly effective.

Fun (5 pearls):  It's fun.  :-)  We've played plenty of times in the past with anal stimulation for both of us, but this is our first prostate massager.  As frances wrote last week, unfortunately, the day we had set aside to test out our new plaything, we left our lube in our suitcase.  Fortunately, between the smooth material, the slim profile, and a little liquid assistance from frances, we were still able to make good use of it.  Based on that, I'd say it would make a great toy for beginners.  And while I can't say it worked miracles on its own, it definitely enhanced my enjoyment of our other activities.  ;-)

"Mystery Category" (2 pearls):  A positive and a negative here.  While edenfantasys markets this specifically as a prostate toy, the package identifies it as a combination P/G spot toy.  We found it a little slim for frances, but still, bonus points for a little off-label versatility.  And a small gripe, this is one of a growing number of toys we've found that take a stack of watch batteries, rather than something more affordable and more common like a AA.  I can't say for sure how the battery life is (we haven't killed a set yet), but it does make each fresh set a bit of an investment.